Win or Lose
I am not a "participation trophy" parent. I think we need to teach kids at an early age that winning doesn't mean you did your best, and that there is no shame in losing as long as you tried. This carries forward to the business world where I have seen some in the early stages of their careers not prepared for setbacks, for failure because they have never encountered it.
At the same time, I think at times we focus too much on the notion of "winning / losing" or on who is r